Friday, May 30, 2014

Why There Arte So Many Neurotics In Strict Families

Parents, feeling that their children lack any spiritual axis to their lives, try to impose upon them what is left of the old external morality, so that they are torn between their desire for liberty and the formalism from which they are unable to escape. That is why there are so many neurotics in strict families, among the children of pastors, and where social conformity rates high. This must be clearly and frankly recognized. The majority of our 'cases of nerves' reveal the pathogenic role played by a formalistic upbringing. In liberating such people we are hard put to destroy the conventionalism with which they are still so strongly imbued despite all their rebellion against it.
But formalism is not Christianity. One might even say that it is essentially the negation of it. It was what crucified Christ.
--Paul Tournier, The Healing of Persons, 42

This is hard to get into the minds of most Christians. It was the most religious people who put Jesus to death. They said they knew God but couldn't recognize him when he was standing right in front of them. The same is true today, religious people are uptight self righteous and judgmental. They study the bible and still don't know God. Parents read what Tournier says and stop raising your kids by thinking strictness will get them to God.

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